I am an INTROVERT

Hello, my name is Suhani Bindra, and I am an introvert. While some might think that means I dislike people or am shy, that's inaccurate. It's not that I'm afraid to talk to others; it's just that I prefer not to engage in conversations unless I feel a genuine connection. This doesn't mean I don't have friends or that I avoid social interactions entirely. I have close friends, and when I'm with them, I enjoy sharing and talking. The key difference is that it takes me time to feel comfortable enough to be myself around new people.

Being an introvert means I love my own company. I find peace and clarity in moments spent alone, whether I'm reading a book, writing a journal, or simply scrolling through reels. Large social gatherings and small talk often leave me feeling socially drained, not because I dislike people, but because such interactions require more energy from me. I often connect deeply with a few people rather than superficially with many. My friendships are based on mutual understanding and trust, allowing me to be myself.

Social situations can be challenging because they require me to step out of my comfort zone. I mean it's a good thing to step out of our comfort zone, meet new people and engage in light conversation. It’s not that I’m antisocial; I just need time to warm up to new environments and faces. Being in college, I often hear suggestions that I should engage more and socialize more actively. While I understand the intention behind this advice, it’s important to recognize that forcing myself to be someone I’m not only leads to stress and discomfort. Instead, I focus on building deeper relationships with those who understand and appreciate me for who I am. 

I've come across opinions suggesting that being introverted may not always be viewed positively, but I've come to appreciate and embrace my introverted nature. It enables me to think deeply and creatively, to observe details that others might miss, and to excel as a listener. These qualities help me form genuine connections and stand out in areas that require focus and introspection.

To extroverts, it might seem odd or difficult to understand, but introverts aren't antisocial; we just interact with the world differently. And for fellow introverts, remember that it's perfectly fine to need time to open up. Our way of experiencing life is just as valid and valuable as anyone else's.

So, if you're ever puzzled by an introvert's behavior, know that it comes from a place of needing to conserve energy and seek meaningful connections. Embracing this aspect of myself has led to deeper relationships and a greater appreciation for my unique way of engaging with the world.